Learning is not something that needs to be forced or controlled. It happens naturally, just like digestion it’s a process that unfolds in its own time. We don’t need to “make” learning happen. It happens every moment, in every interaction, in every experience.

When we see our children as inherently capable and full of potential, we begin to trust the process more. We stop rushing, stop feeling the need to mold them into something they are not. Instead, we allow them to unfold, to grow at their own pace, and to trust that their learning will happen, naturally and effortlessly.
Are you wondering why parenting feels so hard? You're not alone. Modern paradigm of parenting forces us to question ourselves, to compete, to seek the best, to look for tools and “easy fixes.

Unlearning is about freeing ourselves and our children from the pressures of expectation. It's about letting go of the idea that we have to control every moment, every outcome. When we stop limiting ourselves and our children, we create space for true growth. We move away from the belief that "learning" is something we need to make happen, and instead, we embrace the understanding that it’s happening all around us, all the time.

This is the kind of parenting that fosters true independence, self-awareness, and mutual respect. Letting go of control is very difficult for me. I need to constantly and consciously check with myself what is it that triggers me and why, what am I scared about, what are my fears and discomforts.

It’s been an amazing and scary journey for me to observe my son autonomously learn and navigate a self-directed learning path together. I invite you to dive into this unknown world, ask questions, challenge yourself and reach for what might seem to look and feel impossible.